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The List – The Roles I Lead

I Am… a writer a journalist a coordinator of events (private parties/weddings) a business(s) owner a caretaker a sister a best friend a daughter a granddaughter a sister -in-law a lover a godmother an auntie a protector a community representative a leader in every sense of the word a therapeutic companion This is a list of roles I play on a daily basis, the roles interchange throughout the day, but regardless I am all of these Everyday….Successfully. I am a leader by blood. I know no other way then to be these roles, Successfully. This year I had to set boundaries within these positions with everyone that was attached to these roles. Being that I allowed everyone to use these roles I so beautifully shared with them to Abuse for their own gain. You see reciprocity is key in any relationship. If you hold a few of these roles, then to whom you play these roles to, must also be that for you. It took me along time to clearly understand that this is what …